We’re always in a hurry to ‘arrive’ somewhere. As soon as we wake up, we hurry to respond to text messages. We hurry through breakfast to arrive at school, college, or work. We hurry to arrive at work only to plan our departure. We hurry to leave work, to arrive home, and so on. We are constantly stimulated to leave one place for the next. In this rush, we treat our present moments like a waiting room, not realizing that these “waiting rooms” are where life actually happens.
In this endless process of managing mental checklists, replaying negative social interactions, or worrying about the future, we attempt to be everywhere at once. In the end, we find ourselves nowhere.
Introducing: Sunday Stillness
Through Sunday Stillness, we will explore the art of mindful living by being present in the moment. Contemplative thinking isn’t just “thinking.” It is the act of looking at the world without the immediate urge to judge, categorize, or “fix” it. Most of our thoughts are reactive, like a ping-pong ball hitting a wall. Contemplative thinking is the wall itself—still, sturdy, and observant.
You are not the feelings; you are the one feeling them. You are the anchor.
Why is Presence Our Greatest Power?
When you’re present, you are the anchor, the one in control. Let’s look at the ping-pong ball metaphor again:
1. Without Presence: The force with which the ball is thrown represents external stimuli. The ball bounces instantly and uncontrollably. Similarly, if someone is angry with you, you react instantly with your own anger without a second thought.
2. With Presence: You are the wall. You observe the other person’s anger and sit with yourself to contemplate the reason behind it. You watch your own emotions rising, acknowledge them, and consciously decide how to act.
We will observe a common part of your daily life and connect it to the larger journey of contemplative thinking.
The external anchor: Chai
A steaming cup of masala chai in an earthen kullad, used as a grounding anchor for contemplative thinking.
Mostly, we drink our chai while glued to our screens or reading the newspaper. The tea becomes a “side character” to our main activity. To savour a moment is to reclaim the power of that moment.
Grab a cup of chai/coffee in a kullad and try this simple practice of mindful living, training your brain to experience one thing at a time.
The Warmth: Let the earthen clay envelope your palms. When you feel that heat, your brain receives a grounding signal. It’s a physical reminder that pulls you out of “what-if” thoughts and back into your body.
The Steam: Watch the steam rise. It doesn’t move in a straight line; it swirls in waves, bending with the air. Following that rhythm gives your eyes a “soft focus,” acting as a mini-meditation that shuts off the background noise in your head.
The Taste: Take a sip. Let the liquid sit on your tongue; don’t just swallow. Try to find the exact moment the heat fades and the kick of ginger (adrak) and cardamom begins. This is mindful integration which trains your brain to experience one thing at a time instead of juggling ten worries.
I’d love to hear about your power moment this week in the comments section. What is one tiny thing you noticed because you finally stopped to look?
Until next Sunday, stay in the gap of everyday moments.
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Nicely written!!
It is often in the ‘waiting rooms’ of life where the real moments happen whether it is sitting inside a train ‘waiting’ to reach your destination or be it standing and ‘waiting’ in line for a pizza. In these moments we discover the little joys of life, talking to a random stranger on a journey or arguing with your friends for those extra toppings.
But these small moments onky unfold meaningfully only if we pause around and wait for a moment to cherish them.
Beautiffully Written!
We often shout, ‘Live in the present!’ Yet do we truly? Most of the time, no. Thank you for the reminder—it’s high time we did. Savor the moment now, before regret arrives that you let it slip away.”
Beautifully written!
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Sitting alone while sipping your kulhad wali chai is always the best idea to pause and reflect! Thank you for sharing what it means to be present in the moment❤️
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Very thoughtfully written!
Nicely written!!
It is often in the ‘waiting rooms’ of life where the real moments happen whether it is sitting inside a train ‘waiting’ to reach your destination or be it standing and ‘waiting’ in line for a pizza. In these moments we discover the little joys of life, talking to a random stranger on a journey or arguing with your friends for those extra toppings.
But these small moments onky unfold meaningfully only if we pause around and wait for a moment to cherish them.
Thank you for this thought!
Pascal’s original, famous quote is:
“All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”
Great quote. I am glad i was able to pull a blog that coincides perfectly with this quote. Thank you for commenting!
Beautiffully Written!
We often shout, ‘Live in the present!’ Yet do we truly? Most of the time, no. Thank you for the reminder—it’s high time we did. Savor the moment now, before regret arrives that you let it slip away.”
Beautifully written!
We often shout, ‘Live in the present!’ Yet do we truly? Most of the time, no. Thank you for the reminder—it’s high time we did. Savor the moment now, before regret arrives that you let it slip away.
Sitting alone while sipping your kulhad wali chai is always the best idea to pause and reflect! Thank you for sharing what it means to be present in the moment❤️